3 blacks & 8 latinas but have been with the same 2 for 15 months now. i've been to their homes & met family. I understand their economic situation & i'm certainly no fool. I bring the 2 girls to my hotel wherever I stay. I know my holiday is just as much a holiday for them as it is for me. they don't get to eat in the restaurants I bring them to, they don't get a comfortable bed to sleep in like my hotel, clean showers & toilets & i look after them.
I would never bring them to Canada & I know I'm the sugar daddy & enjoy every minute of it. They do whatever I want & treat me like a king. I know they are not that intelligent & I am the best thing that ever happened to them. I set them up bank accounts & send them a modest 50CUC\month each. I'll always leave them a few hundred dollars for them to use on their families & it's quite surprising they actually do it. I got mad at one of them after a few drinks & asked her to leave one night & she got on her knees crying & begging me not to leave her. I had overreacted since I was drunk & apologized. I leave these girls in my hotel room by themselves & have never been ripped off. They know if they steal anything from me that it would be the last money they ever see from me so they are not going to risk that. how many guys send to cuban girls when they are not in the country. I'm not in love & I have 2 girls with me at all times for pleasure & because I don't speak Spanish so if I have 2 of them they can have someone to talk to when they are with me. They are good friends now & don't mind sharing the wealth. I have been there 6 times. I won't go to Havana again but Holguin is no issues with walking hand & hand with locals.
One other thing I had a bad ear infection on xmas day. My 2 girls took me to the hospital & got me in to see a doctor in 10 minutes. I got antibiotics for ears & it cost me nothing. Not all are bad & they are just looking for a better life. many are scammers but many are not. just don't be stupid. if you are looking for 1 nighters then don't leave money out or any valuables. keep everything out of site. I went to Havana 3 times, Varadero once & Holguin twice. holguin was so much more relaxed & the police don't hassle the local girls. If you are not a guest in the hotel you can't be hanging around so security is better. you bring a girl in you have to register into the hotel & rent a room for her. no girls just coming around bothering guests. if she steals something or causes trouble then the hotel has her documentation & address.
If you want to have a good time with no strings attached cuba is a single guys haven. just be careful. I suggest staying away from the afro cuban girls as I found them pushy & aggressive.
I don't even talk to any cuban men unless they are my barkeep, waiter, taxi driver or someone who provides service for me.
I completely ignore them because they are thiefs & scam artists. They talk to me in english I just tell them to leave. I've had a few invite themselves to my table when I'm with my 2 girls & I tell them to piss off.
I'm 37 & they are 25 each. At anytime I can stop sending money & never go back but i'm enjoying myself so much & get to play king for 4-6 weeks every year. I will never get married & have no interest in canadian women. too materialistic & i'm hate fake everything. I keep in contact with my girls regularily & we send naughty emails back & forth to keep our time away interesting. The thing is I understand my role as the bankroll & they know their roll as my lovers. We have a great arrangement & I never get caught up in fantasy relationship, as I said before, I am like an angel that came from heaven.
I have made 2 cuban families lives easier for the last 15 months & they know that if they keep me happy I will keep them happy...
I have a question because I do not understand completely so I’ll use my example. I have an abusive husband who I cheated on before coming to Christ and knowing Gods law. Then he took my children and abandoned me for 8 years. He ended up having another child while we were still married. Now we are going through a divorce. I have someone who is a believer who I dearly love and want to marry one day. According to Gods law is that possible. Or am I supposed to be single for the rest of my life? This is a question I have been tormented with ever since I came into the Light. Please if you can, help shed some truth that can only come from the word of God.
Why should you read it? Because this is one of the first books that delved into the hardships of gang life in East . in the '70s and '80s. The book does a good job of portraying the struggle of living up to a macho image, which was extremely prevalent in those years, especially in rough Latino neighborhoods. You see Luis eventually get out of the gang life and pursue his ambitions as a writer, but not without seeing the dark side of his adolescent years. The book is dark and gritty, but extremely relatable for most Latino men.